Life & Love5 Amateur Threesome Sex Positions That Are Too Good to Pass UpIverson AkhigbeApril 23, 2022

If you and your spouse want to hook up with another couple or have a more general four-person group sex situation, you'll need some really amazing foursome sex positions that are a) incredibly hot for everyone involved, b) genuinely achievable, and c) don't leave anybody out. (Unless it's a voyeur, in which case it's ideal.)

But, before anybody begins going nude, there are a few things to consider to ensure that everyone has a good time.

Discuss how everything will play out.

“While you're in the midst of it (What if you need to stop? ), people who are already partners should chat and agree on your boundaries and ways of communication.” "Then, before you get started, do a variation of this with all four of you!" Make sure you have a plan in place for safer sex, health questions, and long-awaited desires, and that you can, you know, talk to the folks you're going to f*ck!" She also suggests reading Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams' book, Playing Well With Others.

During the intercourse, talk to each other.

"Stay in touch with one another on a frequent basis. "A basic 'Does this feel nice?' "Here are some additional things you may say: 'Do you want more of this?' 'Are you up to it?' 'Show me how.'"

Make sexual contact in a safe manner.
Have a variety of safe sex materials on available for body parts and toys (condoms, dental dams, finger condoms, etc.). "Each time you get engaged with a new individual, make sure you switch out your obstacles. "A barrier should not be used more than once per person," 

Examine your own situation.

"At the end of the day, the most important thing is to have fun." Don't keep going solely to appease your spouse or the rest of the group if you're not having fun. Nina Nguyen, a sex and LGBTQ+ expert, speaker, and cofounder of Fraulila.de, a German LGBTQ+ sex and relationships portal, says, "This is a circumstance where you have to be utterly selfish and decide for yourself."

Have you gotten all of that? Now it's your turn to strip down. Here are some sex positions for foursomes to try out.

 

1. The Mirror, Mirror

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Choose a mirrored position if one, both, or either of the couples isn't sure they're comfortable touching the other couple, according to Nguyen. "Try the classic doggie position, with the two recipients facing each other and fairly close together, as well as the two entering persons." If the receivers choose, they can even share passionate kisses." Everyone can see what's going on, which is a plus.  

 

2. The Multitasker

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Make one (fortunate) individual the focal point of the show. According to Nguyen, they are penetrated with a penis or dildo while providing oral sex to a third person and stimulating the fourth person with their hands or a sex object.

 

3. The All Hands On You

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Want to have all of the attention (and body parts) on you without having to split your focus between receiving and giving? Propose a 3-on-1 game. "One person sleeps in the middle, while the other three enjoy their bodies from head to toe with their hands, lips, tongues, toys, chests, genitals, and more!" O'Reilly proposes. You may equip everyone with finger vibes so that they can explore every area.

 

4. The Icebreaker

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Start the party with a game if you're all new to group sex and don't know where to begin. One couple gives the other advice on how to proceed. If everyone is new and awkward, start with kissing, then have them suck a breast, and then offer oral. From then, you may either freeform it and start doing what they're doing, turn off so they're directing you what to do, or command the other couple to start doing anything to you if you've agreed to mix couples.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. The Cuck-a-Doodle-Doo

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Allow two individuals to have sex with one person while their spouse (the designated cuck) watches. "It's an option to turn off who watches," Padjen explains. Try a scenario where one person is lying on their side and is being entered from both the front and behind.