Over
 80% of women fake orgasms. I didn’t make this up, a detailed study 
carried out by NBC proves this. This means a lot of women are Ooooohing 
and Ahhhhhing their way into absolutely mindblowing ...Nothing.

Wow!
 Shocking yeah? Except it really isn’t shocking. Especially if you’re a 
woman. Come on! You can admit it. I know you’ve faked an orgasm once or 
twice in your lifetime.&nbsp;

Best in dramatics; Oya! Come and take your cup.

While
 a lot of us have intentionally faked orgasms for&nbsp; the sole purpose of 
stroking the ego of men,&nbsp; best believe that there are lots of women&nbsp; who
 are absolutely having fantastic sex lives.

Some of these women (cough cough) are even reaching multiple orgasms.&nbsp;

And then there’s you…struggling your way into one.

You’re
 probably thinking that these women are the lucky ones. But the reality 
is these women are not”lucky”. They just know what they want and have 
mastered their body the same way you’ve mastered how to fake moan. Time 
up!&nbsp; It’s time for that to change. You’re about to get introduced into 
the world of orgasms.

The
 tips I’m about to share are for the “good girls”. The&nbsp; ones that FAKE 
it all the time hoping that someday they will MAKE it. The ones that 
have mastered the art of screaming and shaking recreating their favorite
 porn videos even when they don’t feel anything. The ones who don’t ever
 want to hurt their lovers feelings especially when they know he is 
trying to put in the work.

It’s time to feel! It is your body. You deserve to experience all the beautiful sensations during sex.

Your Body Is Your Best Friend; Get To Know It

At
 the end of the day, nobody is going to know your body more than you do.
 Spend time with your body. Don’t be shy; explore it. Know what feels 
good, know what doesn’t, know what makes you hit the ceiling.&nbsp;

You see, all the different slopes and curves in your body are all the road maps you need for sexual ecstasy. Discover it.

Foreplay Is A Girls’ Best&nbsp; Friend; Take Your Time With It

Don't
 rush the foreplay. Foreplay isn't just a box to tick before getting to 
the main event. It's an essential part of the pleasure journey! You have
 to take your time, get wet, and allow yourself to indulge in all the 
thrilling sensations. 

Let
 the excitement build up until your legs are shaking and you can’t take 
it any longer. Don’t pretend. Don’t fake it. The longer you indulge in 
foreplay, the more the sensations build up and when you finally have 
sex, it is bound to be explosive.

Your Lover Is Not An Enemy; Communicate

If
 someone is going to have access to your body, then you have to be 
comfortable enough with them to let them know what you want and what you
 don’t want. Be vocal. Talk to your lover. Tell him what you want and 
make it clear. Don’t be shy about sharing your deepest desires with your
 lover, I mean, you weren’t shy pulling off your clothes were you?

Don’t
 we all love variety. We use different clothes. We eat different meals. 
Oh! And some of us even explore alternative options while in 
relationships because well…Variety!

While
 variety might not apply to every aspect of life, we know how exhausting
 it can be to be stuck doing one thing for a long time. With sex, 
spicing it up is always a&nbsp; good idea. Be adventurous, don’t be the 
boring bland cindy in your relationship.


 Experiment with different sexual positions, even the most ridiculous 
ones that make you laugh your ass out! Try out new toys (I mean if 
you’re into that kind of stuff). Keep an open mind and explore different
 things at the same time.&nbsp; Intentionally set boundaries for things that 
you will be unable to do.&nbsp;

Spicing
 things up&nbsp; can make you more sensitive which will create a more 
exciting sexual environment ultimately driving you to orgasm.

Ever
 noticed right after sex, you feel ultra sensitive? Embrace it. If you 
didn’t climax the first time, try a second time. A third time. On and 
on. As long as you and your partner are not passing out from 
exhaustion.&nbsp;&nbsp;

Right
 after sex, your body is still very sexually sensitive which makes it 
the perfect time to keep going. This is the best time for those multiple
 earth shattering orgasms. So don’t be too quick to slide under the 
covers and sleep off, enjoy the sexual afterglow and see the heights it 
can take you.

Like
 Rema said, calm down! Sometimes all you need to really truly enjoy 
powerful orgasms is having a relaxed nerve. Live in the present; live in
 the moment. Don’t overthink things. Don’t stress about it.

“Oh can he see me stretch marks?”

&nbsp;''Did I forget to shave?”&nbsp;

&nbsp;''Are my thighs too huge?”&nbsp;

Kilode!
 Just relax. It’s human to have all these thoughts and worries running 
through your mind but remember it’s not about any other person but you. 
Let go of the pressure and just let the moment be your moment.

Sit back and give the sexual reins to your lover, this way you feel more comfortable and can easily reach your sexual peak.

Most times,&nbsp; that’s&nbsp; all it takes. Practice.

You
 might not get it right the first time but then you try again. And 
again. And again. Until voila..:you become the champion of multiple 
orgasms.&nbsp;

Like
 with anything in life, practice is essential. The more you explore your
 pleasure potential, the better you'll understand your body and what 
works for you. And remember that practice should never be a chore…alway 
enjoy the journey and experience.

Everyone
 is unique, and what works for one might not work for another. So, 
please, do not put pressure on yourself to reach orgasms. Embrace your 
sexuality confidently and have fun with it and before you know it, you 
will be on your way to multiple orgasms.

Over 80% of women fake orgasms. This means a lot of women are Ooooohing and Ahhhhhing their way into absolutely mind blowing...Nothing. Wow! 

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