The bigger the better. When It comes to the male anatomy, this has become a very popular saying automatically placing the males with bigger dicks at a better advantage of getting the ladies.

This had contributed to a feeling of shame amongst a lot of men with smaller sized dicks. Nigerian men love to feel powerful and dominant, and they might struggle to feel that way in a society that has deemed men with smaller dicks as lesser than others.

In a quest to fulfill these societal expectations and satisfy their partners, some Nigerian men with smaller penis sizes have turned to alternative methods of increasing their penis sizes, some of them even life threatening.

I had a lot of Nigerian men fill a survey meant specifically for men with smaller sized dicks and boy! they had so much to get off their chest.

These men obviously did not share their identity but they were raw and vulnerable with their emotions and feelings and were able to lay it all out on the plate.&nbsp;

While I can’t possibly share all the answers collated, these 4 answers really stood out to me thanks to refreshing honesty in them.&nbsp;

<i><b>[The names mentioned below are not correct but the experience and stories are factual and real.]</b></i>

As a man living with a small penis, I have experienced firsthand the psychological and emotional burdens that come with having a small penis.

I had always been an outgoing and confident individual, but my small penis was a secret I guarded with all of me. It was an unspoken truth that haunted me in the deepest corners of my mind, shaping my interactions with women and hindering my ability to form intimate connections. But that all changed one fateful night.

She was beautiful and very sensual with gorgeous brown eyes and a smile that could light up a room. We met at a friend's gathering, and our connection seemed instant. As we engaged in conversations, laughter, and shared interests, I began to feel my reservations about my small dick size slowly dissipate. She seemed smart and well spoken . I was certain she would be accepting of me and everything that came with me.

The night grew late, and with a mixture of anticipation and nervousness, we found ourselves alone in my apartment. We kissed passionately, our bodies tangled and heated up in desire.

We pulled off each other's clothes and almost immediately, I saw a dark shadow pass across Ada’s face. The anticipation I had felt turned to confusion and disappointment. Her eyes wandered, and she avoided meeting my gaze. It was at that moment that my worst fears were realized. My small penis had shattered the illusion I had built, and I could see the judgment spread across her face. She came up with an excuse on why she couldn’t be intimate with me and left hurriedly.

In the days that followed, silence consumed&nbsp;our connection. She ghosted me. Without a single thought or regard for my feelings.

From an early age, I was aware that I possessed a smaller-than-average penis, however, I didn’t think it was such a big deal. People were built differently. Some people had bigger sized heads than others. Some had bigger shoulders. And so forth.&nbsp;

However as I grew older, I started to become aware of society's obsession with dick sizes.

I dedicated time to self-exploration, self-acceptance, and understanding my own male anatomy.

When I started to date and be in relationships, I deliberately carried myself with an unshakable confidence.&nbsp;

I firmly believed that sexual satisfaction went far beyond physical attributes. This mindset empowered me to forge genuine connections based on mutual respect and shared values.

I also became open about my small dick size instead of hiding behind in shame.

I set the stage for genuine understanding and acceptance, eliminating the fear of rejection that often accompanies secrecy.

In my encounters with my sexual partners, I made it a point to educate my partners about sexual pleasure and dismiss the myths perpetuated by mainstream media that bigger means better.

This approach helped create an environment of trust and vulnerability, ensuring that I and my partner were fulfilled and satiated after each sexual encounter.

I’m not going to lie, the pressure from society got to me. For the longest time and even till presently I’ve been on the lookout for supplements that would enhance my size.

&nbsp;I tried various supplements, hoping for a better outcome but despite my efforts, my dick size did not increase.

To compensate for my shortcomings, I started to spend more time pleasuring my partners.

&nbsp;I dedicated time to learn about my partner's preferences, focusing on their pleasure and exploring new techniques to heighten their satisfaction.&nbsp;

By prioritizing their needs, I was somewhat able to create an intimate and fulfilling experience, regardless of my own physical attributes.

I’ve stopped enjoying sex with my wife.&nbsp;

I didn’t really have much issue when we were dating and I prided myself at being able to satisfy her really well despite my small dick size until she gave birth. Since she gave birth, it’s&nbsp; been difficult to feel any sexual pleasure when we are having sex. It’s even worse because she has confessed to feeling no sexual pleasure with me too since giving birth.

I’m a married man who has now taken to masturbating any chance he gets and my wife has also sadly taken to Dildos to satisfy herself.

This makes me very scared to even have another baby. I can’t help feeling like my wife secretly resents me and might one day cheat on me. I’ve never felt more forlorn.

The story of these Nigerian men serve as a reminder that confidence and self-assurance is the most important factor for fighting back against social constructs.

It's time to shift the narrative surrounding small penises and empower men to embrace their bodies without shame.&nbsp;

Let us keep on celebrating the courage of these men to speak up and share their stories while we also strive to create a culture that celebrates diversity in all forms.

For us to truly start living, we must push back the veil of silence and confront the harmful impacts of societal expectations.&nbsp;

''I’m a married man who has now taken to masturbating any chance he gets and my wife has also sadly taken to Dildos to satisfy herself. I can’t help feeling like my wife might one day cheat on me.''

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