Off the top of my head, I would say it's impossible to be in a relationship without chemistry. But that's not true. People are wired differently. While you might prioritise chemistry in your romantic relationships, some promise compatibility.&nbsp;

Are they wrong for that? No. What works for A doesn't have to work for B. One of the major causes of couple breakups is a lack of chemistry. To keep the romance burning in a relationship requires effort, and in some cases, the chemistry just isn't there.

The driving force for a romantic relationship is the chemistry you both have. No science is required to figure out if you and your partner have chemistry. If you and your partner prioritize compatibility over chemistry, you might be unable to spot the signs that you two have zero chemistry. Aside from chemistry, mutual attraction can be a driving force to start a relationship, and many confuse it for chemistry until they're deep into the relationship.&nbsp;

To avoid questioning yourself for too long, here are five signs you and your partner don't have chemistry.&nbsp;

5 Signs of no chemistry in a relationship&nbsp;

Barely any eye contact with your partner? That says a lot and is a major sign that there's no chemistry between you and your partner. When chemistry exists in your relationship, you could stare into their eyes for hours, and you could get lost in them. There's an intensity to how much you both communicate nonverbally through the eyes. A good look at their eyes and you can easily tell what's on their mind. That's how powerful eye contact is in a relationship that has chemistry.&nbsp;

The moment when making eye contact with your partner for more than a few seconds feels like a chore, and the chemistry is lost in the relationship. Struggling to keep eye contact is a telltale sign. It can't be denied and is painful to accept. Most people avoid eye contact because of discomfort and lack of interest. And a lack of interest in a relationship means the chemistry is gone.&nbsp;

Physical intimacy is something that comes naturally when two people are in love. Your body gravitates towards your partner automatically. The attraction you feel makes you crave their touch and appreciate their presence. It can be so strong and intoxicating that it can be a driving force for a relationship. Just like love being important in a relationship, physical intimacy is too.&nbsp;

Lack of chemistry in your relationship will make you recoil at the idea of physical intimacy with your partner. Maybe repel is a strong word, but you get the drift. If you notice a shift in your desire for physical touch from your partner, simple acts like hugs or kisses make you uncomfortable, and there's no chemistry. You don't need a textbook to know if someone wants to be physically close to you. If they don't, there's no chemistry in the relationship.&nbsp;

Banters flow naturally, which is why they're fun. There's a rhythmic flow between you and your partner that should exist if there's chemistry in the relationship. The simplest of conversations would come at ease that you don't run out of things to say. And when you do, it feels more like a comfortable silence than an awkward silence. If you can't picture you and your partner in such a scenario, that's a sign of no chemistry.&nbsp;

If you find yourself constantly thinking of things to talk about with your partner or always planning conversation pointers, there is a lack of chemistry. Good chemistry in a relationship showcases a natural flow of conversation and a comfortable silence, which means a strong connection.&nbsp;

The feeling of emotional disconnection with your partner can't be hidden for long. You might try, especially if you desire to hold onto the relationship. Once the chemistry is lost in your relationship, it exposes a lack of depth and emotional bond that doesn't exist. Everything about your partner should get you excited or angry if it upsets them. Regardless of how little it is.&nbsp;

If you don't feel that type of emotional connection, then that is a sign of no chemistry in your relationship.&nbsp;

There are communication patterns that most relationships have, and the dynamic becomes evident when there are issues in the relationship. Your partner is bound to annoy you at least once in two weeks, and the manner you both address it depends on the chemistry you have.&nbsp;

If there's no eagerness to address problems, that's a sign of no chemistry. The communication problems between you and your partner are constant and draining. You struggle to express your thoughts and feelings because you feel they won't understand. When chemistry exists, communication comes easily, and you enjoy every moment. Even the difficult conversations. If communication problems are hard to deal with, you might as well see it as a sign that there's no chemistry between you and your partner.&nbsp;

How to reignite lost chemistry in your relationship&nbsp;

Once you're aware there's lost chemistry between you and your partner, a solution is needed. The form of solution is dependent on you if you want your relationship to have a spark again. If you prioritize chemistry and conclude there's no way around it, you can decide to walk away from the relationship. If you believe your relationship will work with more effort and building chemistry is something you and your partner can achieve, that's great. Here are a few strategies you can adopt to reignite your chemistry.&nbsp;

You and your partner need to be on the same page if there's no chemistry in the relationship. What you think your partner wants might not be what they want. You have to listen to their words carefully and pay attention to their actions. If your partner has desires you can't meet, different views, values and interests, the chemistry will be harder to create. Listen to what your partner needs in the relationship and act accordingly.&nbsp;

Chemistry usually blossoms when two people have similar traits and interests. If at the initial stage of recognizing there's no chemistry in your relationship, you might want to dig deeper and find a common ground. You and your partner should communicate often, share your interests, and values. This creates a deeper connection and can reignite the chemistry in your relationship.

If you're committed to making your relationship work, all the signs listed that showcase there's lost chemistry have to be addressed. Spend more time with your partner, maintain eye contact better, do fun activities together, and plan unexpected gestures for your partner. Addressing these signs shows intentionality and can bring the spark back into your relationship.&nbsp;

Does a relationship have to end due to no chemistry?&nbsp;

No. It doesn't have to end. Noticing the signs doesn't mean you have to give up on your relationship. It is common for couples to go through stages where they feel like chemistry is lost. Think of it as a hiccup or cough that needs treatment.

View the signs as an advantage to strengthen the bond of your relationship. Be honest about your feelings and stay dedicated to reigniting the spark in your relationship. No relationship is perfect, and it takes hard work to create a deep bond.

Noticing the signs doesn't mean you have to give up on your relationship. It is common for couples to go through stages where they feel like chemistry is lost. Think of it as a hiccup or cough that needs treatment.

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