"New year, new me." How many times did you say that this year?

Let me guess: You started 2025 with a vision board, three self-help books you didn't finish, and the unshakeable belief that THIS would be your year.&nbsp;

You were going to wake up at 5 AM. Drink more water. Set boundaries. Stop letting people play with you. Finally block your ex. Reply to your friend's text from March (you still haven't, by the way).

Fast forward to December. The vision board is under your bed collecting dust. You're still dehydrated. Your boundaries are suggestions at best. And that ex? You didn't block them. You actually liked their story last week. At 2 AM. While eating leftovers.

So let's stop pretending and get honest: Did you actually become a new person in 2025? Or did you just change your profile picture, buy a planner you used twice, and recycle the exact same character hoping nobody would call you out?

Time for your 2025 personality recap. It's going to be accurate in a way that feels like a personal attack. But you're going to share it anyway because deep down, you know it's true.

Question 1: Someone you like texts you "wyd?" at 11 PM. What did you do in 2025?

A. Responded immediately with paragraph-length updates about your day

B. Left them on read for 3 days just to prove a point&nbsp;

C. Panicked for 20 minutes about what it meant before responding

D. Didn't respond. You were busy not getting attached to anyone.

E. Saw it the next morning because you were working

F. Started typing a response, got distracted by a new business idea, forgot to reply

Question 2: What did most of your 2025 look like?

A. Falling for people who weren't falling back

B. Starting beef you didn't finish and leaving chaos in your wake

C. Crying in bathrooms and pretending you were fine

D. Keeping everyone at arm's length and thriving in your own space

E. Working late, answering emails at midnight, forgetting what rest feels like

F. Starting 5 different projects and abandoning 4 of them

Question 3: Your group chat was talking about drama. What was your role?

A. The one giving relationship advice despite your own love life being a disaster

B. The one who started the drama or made it worse

C. The one who got emotional and needed reassurance that everyone still loved you

D. You left the group chat on read. You don't have time for this.

&nbsp;E. "Sorry, guys, I'm at work. What did I miss?" (You missed everything)

&nbsp;F. You were in the chat but also in 3 other chats for your different business ideas

Question 4: Be honest. How many times did you say "I'm done" and then… not be done?

B. Never. When you said you're done, you burned bridges and blocked everyone.

C. You said it while crying but you were back the next day

D. You said it once and actually meant it. You're good at cutting people off.

E. You were too busy working to even have this drama

F. You said it about 3 different career paths this year

Question 5: What did your screen time reveal about 2025?

A. You spent hours rewatching their Instagram stories and old texts

B. You were on Twitter starting arguments for sport

C. TikTok therapy videos and "it's okay to not be okay" content

D. Minimal social media. You were offline living your life.

F. Jumping between 7 different apps for your 7 different projects

Question 6: What was your 2025 energy in one sentence

C. "I'm sensitive and I'm tired of pretending I'm not."

D. "I'm protecting my peace and my sanity."

E.&nbsp; "I'll rest when I'm successful."

F.&nbsp; "This is the one. No, wait—THIS is the one."

Question 7: Your New Year's resolution was probably

A. "I'm going to stop giving my all to people who don't deserve it." (You didn't stop.)

B.&nbsp; "I'm going to be more peaceful." (You weren't.)

C.&nbsp; "I'm going to be stronger and stop crying over everything." (You cried more.)

D. "I'm going to focus on myself and not entertain nonsense." (You actually did this.)

E. "I'm going to work less and live more." (You worked more.)

F.&nbsp; "I'm going to finish what I start." (You started 10 new things instead.)

Question 8: How did your friendships survive 2025?

A. You loved your friends deeply, but sometimes gave more than they gave back

B. You were the chaos friend. Some friendships survived. Some didn't.

C. Your friends spent a lot of time reassuring you that they still liked you

D. You kept things surface-level. Close, but not too close.

E. You meant to text back. You really did. Work just took over.

F. You made plans with friends, then cancelled because of your new business idea

You loved HARD in 2025. Too hard, if we're being honest.

You gave people your time, your energy, your whole heart, even when they weren't giving the same back. You stayed when you should've left. You forgave when you should've walked away. You poured into people who weren't even trying to fill your cup.

And yeah, you got hurt. Multiple times. But here's the thing: you'd probably do it all over again because that's just who you are. You love loudly, unapologetically, and without a safety net.

Your 2025 was full of feelings, big ones. You cried, you hoped, you believed in people even when they gave you every reason not to. Your friends called you "too much." Your family said you were "too soft." But you kept loving anyway.

2026 challenge: Love yourself with the same energy you gave everyone else this year. Just once. See what happens.

You were CHAOS in human form this year. And honestly? You had fun.

You started arguments just to see what would happen. You said things you probably shouldn't have said. You burned bridges and didn't even look back to watch them collapse. "But did you die?" was your energy for most of 2025.

People called you messy, dramatic, "Too much," and you wore it like a badge of honor. You weren't trying to be peaceful. You were trying to be honest, and if that made people uncomfortable? That's their problem.

Your 2025 was loud, chaotic, and unapologetically you. You didn't play it safe. You didn't people-please. You showed up exactly as you were and refused to apologize for it.

2026 challenge: Choose your battles. Not every hill is worth dying on. (But also, don't change too much. We need the chaos sometimes.)

A minor inconvenience? Tears. Someone's tone in a text? Tears. That one scene in a movie? Also tears. You cried in bathrooms, in Ubers, in your bed at 2 AM. Your emotional capacity was at an all-time high and your tear ducts worked overtime.

You needed constant reassurance. "Are we okay?" "Are you mad at me?" "Do you still like me?" became your most-used phrases. You overthought, over-felt, and over-apologized for simply existing.

Your friends spent a lot of time telling you they weren't upset with you. You spent a lot of time not believing them.

But here's the truth: Your sensitivity isn't a weakness. You feel things deeply because you care deeply. And in a world that's constantly telling people to "toughen up," your softness is actually kind of brave.

2026 challenge: Believe people the first time they say they're not mad at you. Your anxiety is lying.

You weren't about to let anyone close enough to hurt you in 2025. Not this year. Not again.

You kept things casual. Surface-level. "We're just vibing" was your favorite phrase. You avoided "what are we?" conversations like they were contagious. When things started feeling too real, you disappeared.

Not dramatically, just… quietly. You stopped responding, you "got busy”, you protected your peace by keeping everyone at arm's length.

And honestly? You thrived. While everyone else was getting their hearts broken, you were out here unbothered, unattached, and untouchable.

People called you emotionally unavailable. You called it self-preservation. Potato, potahto.

2026 challenge: Let someone in. Just one person. Not everyone is going to hurt you. (But also, trust your gut. You've earned that distance.)

Your life was WORK in 2025. That's it. That's the tweet.

You answered emails at midnight. You worked weekends. You skipped hangouts because you had deadlines. You forgot what hobbies felt like. Your screen time report was 90% work apps.

Your friends stopped inviting you out because you were always "busy." Your family asked if you were okay. You said yes while responding to a Slack message.

You told yourself you'd rest when the project was done. But the project was never done. There was always another deadline, another meeting, another goal to hit.

You became your job title. And somewhere along the way, you forgot who you were outside of work.

2026 challenge: Take one day off without checking emails. Just one. See if the world actually falls apart. (Spoiler: It won't.)

"New year, new me." But were you actually new in 2025? Take this personality quiz to find out what type of person you were this year.

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