Stop setting goals that flop. Discover who you’re really becoming in 2026 with this fun, chaotic, and brutally honest quiz and plan your year around your true energy.


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Who Are You Becoming in 2026? Take the Archetype Quiz

Some connections blur the lines. They’re too intimate to be platonic but too undefined to be a relationship. This audit will force a tag on what you’ve been avoiding.

You’re Not Just Friends, and You Know It: A Reality Check for Confusing Connections



"New year, new me." But were you actually new in 2025? Take this personality quiz to find out what type of person you were this year.

Your 2025 Personality Recap: Were You a Lover, A Menace, or Something Else Entirely?

Going outside requires social skills nobody taught you. Here's your survival guide to making friends at December raves without forcing it or being cringe.

The Non-Cringe Guide to Making Friends at December Raves


A smart, no-nonsense manual for navigating December’s chaos — family wahala, social overload and festive pressure — without losing your mind, your money, or your peace.

How to Stay Sane at Your Christmas Get-together


A simple, sweet, and slightly-too-relatable guide to spotting the hints before they fly right over your head.

Subtle Signs Someone’s Crushing on You (and You’re Missing It)


Take this relatable quiz about texting exes, ghosting, overthinking, and situationships. Your results are waiting.

What Kind of 2025 Lover Were You?

Explore your 2025 Love Delusion Report: a funny, relatable look at your dating habits, romantic decisions, and the delusions that shaped your love life this year.

Welcome to Your 2025 Love Delusion Report


Why do we feel so irresistible during the holidays? Take our quiz to find your festive flirt type.


Festive Vibes, Flirty Energy: What Type of Holiday Flirt Are You?

Society tells men to be humble, honest Efe… then turn around and start clapping for fast-money Oboz. This real breakdown exposes the pressure, the confusion, and why men are low-key tired. With simple, practical ways to survive society’s double standards.


Society Wants You to Be ‘Efe’, But Will Only Celebrate You When You’re ‘Oboz’: Welcome to Nigerian Masculinity


There’s more than matching PJs for a couple's Christmas photoshoot. Discover unique and intimate ideas that deepen your connection with your partner and unleash novel experiences.

Skip the Clichés: 4 Intimate Ideas to Make Christmas Special for Your Partner 



A sharp, provocative breakdown of how Twitter and men like Andrew Tate are reshaping African masculinity into something extreme, performative, and disconnected from real life. A bold call for men to drop the “alpha male” script and return to actual humanity.

How to Be a Man, According to Twitter: A Masterclass in Getting It All Wrong.


Late-night poetry, gallery hops, and curated playlists, dating Lagos creatives is wild, fun, and full of vibes. Here’s how to handle it.

How to Survive (and Slay) the Artsy Dating Scene in Lagos


Wondering if your bestie is toxic or you're just overthinking? These friendship red flags would help you decide. 

Sis, Is Your Bestie Really Your Bestie? 5 Red Flags to Spot

After five years of love, one shocking discovery forced him to choose between heartbreak and self-respect, exposing how fragile trust can be

We Are Not Who We Used to Be, A Love That Broke Apart

It's important to look out for red flags in a relationship, but it's also important to recognize the green flags and be able to receive them.

Green flags in relationships that deserve more hype

Situationships are romantic or sexual relationships that haven't been formalized. Boundaries, exclusivity, and labels are what form a real relationship, but situationships lack them. 

Signs You're in a Situationship, Not a Real Relationship

 One of the easiest ways to keep your romantic relationship sizzling is by doing simple acts of service in your mundane daily routine. 

Easy ways to keep a romantic relationship sizzling

It's not because they’re falling apart. It's because they want to make it last.


Why are so many young couples in therapy

Noticing the signs doesn't mean you have to give up on your relationship. It is common for couples to go through stages where they feel like chemistry is lost. Think of it as a hiccup or cough that needs treatment.

Signs you and your partner don't have chemistry

Relationships require both partners to put in significant effort to build a solid foundation. When it comes to long-distance relationships, they demand extra effort, extra time, patience, and commitment. You either go big or go home.

How to maintain a long-distance relationship

Subtle red flags in a relationship can be hard to spot but may lead to emotional harm. Learn the signs of manipulation and control before they take a toll.

Subtle Red Flags in a Relationship

Tips for maintaining intimacy, independence, and connection while living apart. Real stories and expert advice

How To Make a Long-Distance Marriage Work

Like Doechii, I prefer dating queer men—but why is that controversial? This explores personal preferences, identity, and the debate around them.

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Why I’ll Only Date Queer Men — And Why That’s Not Up for Debate

Looking for the perfect nickname for your boyfriend? Check out 101 sweet, romantic, and sexy names to show your love and strengthen your bond

101 Of The Best Nicknames For Your Boyfriend 

Have you ever noticed repeating numbers like 111 or 1234? These might be divine messages from the universe.

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Everything You Should Know About Angel Numbers

I’m in my late 20s and only realized I’m also into women this year

How to know if you're bisexual

Your Weekly Love Horoscope Has Arrived

Libra Monthly Horoscope

She was willing to communicate, but this conversation was a delicate one, that could either make or break her relationship depending on how she passed her message across and how he might receive it.

Sexual Frustration – The Best Way to Open Up to Your Partner

Philophobia is the fear of falling in love. This fear can build up negatively and impact on your theory on love and relationships.


Starting a New Relationship – How to Overcome Your Fear


PS: My story shouldn't motivate you to follow anyone home on a first date, but then again, you are an adult so do you!


Is Squirting Also Peeing? My First Squirting Experience

A phantom ex lingers in your relationship because your partner has not entirely moved on from them, but this doesn't mean they still love them.

Guaranteed Ways To Help You Move On From Your Phantom Ex


With the different types of sex toys, it can get a little bit confusing to know what suits you, what makes your knees wobble, and legs vibrate, especially if you’re new in the market, but hopefully, through these women, you might figure out what you’re looking for, so stay tuned!


5 Nigerian Women Talk About Their Favorite Sex Toys


Am I in love with my husband? Of course, I am, but am I also attracted to women? I think I am. I had never assumed myself gay; I mean, the thought had never crossed my mind until I met her. She changed the dynamics of my entire sexuality. 

My First Time With A Woman Made Me Question My Sexuality


Igbo men have made such an impression in Nigeria's dating scene that every woman wants to either be with an Odogwu or become Nwunye Odogwu, and that's beautiful. But we've come up with a few reasons from true stories that might help you reconsider accepting that Odogwu Silencer.

Reasons Why You Should Never Date an Igbo Man

The energy you get from dating a young girl is completely different from that of dating an older woman - the aura surrounding a relationship with an older lady is more comforting and mature which is not something I'm willing to give up.

Why You Shouldn't Date A Young Girl

In the past, divorce was a huge deal and a frowned upon situation; nobody wanted to be associated with a divorcee. But today, divorce has become a norm in our society, and we should decide what relationship flag it falls under - red or green?

Red Flags In Relationships: Dating a Divorcee


Pick-me girls do their very best to support and please the male gender. Their notion of not being like other girls and being the cool girl always ends up with them betraying their friends and female society just to get "the man."

Being A Pick Me Girl Does Not Guarantee Getting A Man

Taking a break from sex does not automatically mean that you are on a celibacy journey.

 Indulging In Sexual Fasting Does Not Mean You Are Celibate

The idea behind a talking stage is to get to know each other on a surface level. Every other thing should come while in the relationship.

Help! I Can’t Seem To Exit A Talking Stage

Married man in Abuja always wish they had met you before their wives, and they would make it known with so much audacity.

The Audacious Nature Of Married Men In Abuja

Nigerian men are known for their sexual freakiness and high libido, but when it comes to sex toys, they'd rather invest in them for their ladies than for themselves


Nigerian Men React To The Idea Of Male Sex Toys


Sexting is a great means of spicing up your relationship, particularly long-distance relationships but sexting has rules that need to be followed to ensure your protection.

The 5 Golden Rules You Should Consider When Sexting


A Yoruba man can be everything you want in man, they will shower you with all the sweetness but remember, excessive sweets aren't so healthy.

Reasons Why You Should Never Date A Yoruba Man

Meeting up with your toxic ex doesn't necessarily make you seem weak or stupid; it just might be what you need to make your final decision.

Say Yes And Hangout With Your Toxic Ex


Nigerian women have raised the bar regarding dates, particularly first dates. They no longer buy the idea of fast food restaurants but are now going for classy, expensive restaurants, and don't forget aesthetically pleasing restaurants.

Nigerian Women Hate Fast Food Restaurant Dates

A birthday celebrant should always get their wishes granted no matter how naughty it might seem.

Granting The Naughty Wish Of A Birthday Boy

A little fun on the beach has to be on your fantasy To-do list.

My Sexcapade With My Bestfriend’s Cousin

The prefix gyne means "woman" or "female" and just as the name implies gynesexuality is the attraction to femininity but this isn't the regular heterosexual or lesbian relationship, this form of sexuality does not limit you to just the female gender.

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